“I remember laughing and saying that was probably the least romantic proposal any woman has ever received…” – Kris Aquino on Mayor Bistek’s marriage proposal

Feb 27, 2015

by Rommel Placente

Sa kanyang sariling blog sa Internet (www.withlovekrisaquino.com) ay idinitalye na ni Kris Aquino ang naging relasyon nila ni Quezon City Mayor Hetbert Bautista. Titled The State Of My Heart posted last February 24, ini-reveal niya kung kelan nagsimula ang kanilang relasyon, ang mga lugar na pinuntahan nila hanggang sa kung paano sila nag-break.

Pero ang pinakamalaking pasabog niya ay ang rebelasyong niyaya pala siyang pakasal ni Bistek.

“This is the first time I’ll publicly acknowledge this, because I can now recall with absolutely no bitterness or regrets; on the first Friday of April nearly a year ago during merienda, he said he was tired, he didn’t want to play games, he was tired of chasing and of running away, and he wanted to feel secure with someone he could grow old with. He said, walang romance, walang lokohan, walang bolahan. Okay na raw ba ‘ko to marry him kasi nga pagod na siya?

“I remember laughing and saying that was probably the least romantic proposal any woman has ever received, but because we were so similar in our weirdness, I was in agreement; I wanted to grow old with him because I knew we’d never be bored conversing, and maybe this was where God led two individuals who deserved a chance at life-long companionship with maturity, and full acceptance of equally colorful pasts,” saad ni Kris sa kanyang blog.

Kinabukasan daw ay nag-dinner sila ni Bistek with her family at ‘yun ang kauna-unahang pagkakataon na ipinakilala niya ang boyfriend sa pamilya. Doon ay muli silang nag-usap na dalawa ng heart-to-heart.

“I said I realized he never said he loved me, he was simply tired, and I didn’t want to be his version of Salonpas, Alaxan, Ben Gay, or a massage. He cried too and said he was scared, overwhelmed, afraid of being branded a ‘user’ when he has given the majority of his life to public service, and maybe we should take a step back.”

Nagsimba raw sila ng Sunday and then nung Lunes sa show nilang Aquino & Abunda Tonight ay ni-reveal niya ang tungkol sa kanila ni Mayor Herbert.

“I made the mistake of speaking about him the following night on A&A. The next day, over the phone he broke up with me, right before Bimb’s 7th birthday party,” patuloy na kwento ni Kris sa kanyang blog. Babae ang dapat makaranas nito or ma-treat nang ganito.

Napag-usapan rin daw nila before the break-up kung ano ang gagawin nila sa darating na Pasko.

“I said that my non-negotiable was Christmas Eve Mass with my family, but Christmas Day was for him & his siblings & his kids. And I went to sleep with tears quietly streaming down my face, sad that we hadn’t made it.”

Sa naging rebelasyon na ito ni Kris, ano kaya ang magiging reaksyon ni Mayor Herbert?